Sunday, June 17, 2007

Medicine/Pediatrics Senior Dinner



A wonderful evening has come to an end, and friends are now making final preparations for the next phase in their lives. Perhaps I will sit and write a more detailed and thoughtful entry in the morning. Well done to all! And good luck to next year's SARs.










Saturday, June 16, 2007

Medicine Senior Dinner



Last night was the Medicine Department's dinner for the graduating senior residents. Like last year it was held at the beautiful Hope Valley Golf and Country Club which happens to be very close to where we live. Dinner was the same as last year - or at least what I had (Filet Mignon). Can't beat a good quality steak no matter what the other food options in my opinion.

As usual, they had a slide presentation of all the SARs (senior assistant resident -- don't know why they are called this actually) in which they made fun of most/all of them. It was good fun, and not that emotional though. The medicine dinners always seem more proper and formal than personal in my opinion. We managed to take but three pictures all night. I will post all here. I will certainly take more pictures tonight, which is the senior med/peds dinner - Kelly's graduating class of 6. It will definitely prove to be much more emotional for sure, since this intimate group/program has really grown close over the past 4 years.

The Mostaghimi family babysat Ethan and put him to bed (in their home). THANK YOU!!! We left the festivities early (10pm) to hang out with Zhila and Parvaneh a little before taking Ethan home. What a great family we have in our colleagues and the Baha'i community. All will be terribly missed when we move to Blue Ridge.

Thursday, June 14, 2007

"Under Contract"

Well dear friends and family, thank you so much for all your prayers, today we've accepted an offer and our house is officially "under contract". With two offers late yesterday, Kelly and I decided on action (2) (read previous blog entry) and asked both agents and their respective clients to better their initial offer since the two were very similar. Today, both parties increased their offers by the same amount, making our decision more or less a "toss up". We went with the slightly higher offer, as obvious as that may seem, though both Kelly and I feel the loss for our sentimental choice - our home would have been their first. But we rationalized that the market has been very difficult for us, and we have worked so terribly hard the past few months! Ethan can vouch :-P And with the market being a "buyer's market" I have no doubt at all that the young couple whose offer we did not select in the end will find a wonderful home very soon.

Closing date: July 16th 2007

Moving date: July 17th 2007

Wednesday, June 13, 2007

Great Offers

What a long day it has been! Kelly and I have two great offers on our house! Likely the product of two competing agents and their respective clients, we now have a difficult decision to make: (1) accept the slightly better offer (both being very similar/both slightly higher than our asking price) or (2) give one final chance for both parties to better their offer by tomorrow P.M. (either party not knowing the other's offer/but risk offending and having original offer withdrawn)?? Hmm... I think I know what we'll do. Pray tonight. Much more tomorrow!!!!! :-D Sorry for the suspense...

And the lightning incident in Blue Ridge? Our home and water pipes seem to be unharmed. No damages. At least as far as the company knew by this morning when I spoke to one person. Lucky break!

And come to think of it, we have more house showings lined up for tomorrow. What do I say? "Sorry, we already have offers on our house." ?? Or how about, "Unless you are willing to offer more than (this) then just forget about it!" :-P

It's great finally being in the driver's seat after months of agony on this house and the sluggish real estate market. (though we're still not home free and nothing is nearly final yet, so not to jinx our offers!)

I'm going to miss 801 Turmeric Lane -- my first house. (thanks, Dad!)

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

Lightning Strike

Apparently, lightning struck a tree in Fern Valley (our home in Blue Ridge) and the jolt managed to travel down to the ground and damaged water pipes running from the neighborhood well (shared by three households) to the meters. As of yet, we don't know if any damage was incurred on the water pipes running from the meter to our house. Thank God for home insurance. And though the news of this made me feel terribly down as if nothing could get any worse, things are slowly looking up with our Durham house for sale.

A host of emails and phone calls have flooded my computer and cell phone on interest in our Durham home, with two possible offers being made as early as tomorrow. I pray tomorrow will be a successful day.

This afternoon, we had two showings - originally just one, though the reator rescheduled a second showing just an hour after the first for his clients wanted to see our house again. The second visit/showing lasting twice as long as the first (nearly half an hour), the agent later told me his clients wish to put in an offer some time tomorrow. And with my realtor also showing our home to some other clients for another "second showing", they too apparently are hopeful in putting in an offer by 3pm tomorrow.

What a turn of events!

I am thrilled but cautious - "guardedly optimistic" as Kelly mentioned this past weekend.

We've been doing the house selling thing for a while now to know nothing is set until a contract is signed by all parties.

God-willing, tomorrow will be a great day.

This Past Weekend In Pictures


















Senior Farewell Dinners



Senior Class Photo, Duke, Internal Medicine & Pediatrics combined residency program, 2007
[Back L-R: Kelly Koay, MD, Jennifer Walker, MD, Krishelle Leong-Grotz, MD; Front L-R: Christian Ramers, MD, Mathew Schwartz, MD, Reilly Coch, MD]

It is that time of the year when graduating seniors bid farewell to mentors, friends and colleagues, and look back on their training here at Duke with fond memories and astonishment at just how quickly 3 years (4 for some) has flown by. A word reiterated through speeches offered by many describing feelings they have during this time of the year was "bittersweet". And I can say, as a spouse to a medical resident, I concur.

It is hard to survive and sacrifice so much to go through a residency training. And I have to say it is probably a lot harder trying to do a combined program like medicine and pediatrics. It is one year longer than most (4 instead of 3) and you find yourself in your second year of the program being called a "senior" to interns who end up, by the end of their first year, actually having more experience (than you - if you did med/peds) in either single discipline.

So much self-doubt you have to overcome because of the nature of the combined program and split schedules, which pushes you to always have to "catch up" and learn quickly to "keep up" with medicine or peds colleagues.

And now it is Kelly's class' year. Their time. They are the ones being celebrated this year. Can you believe it is now their time? The many senior dinners we've attended, and the emotions we saw in the graduating seniors of those years - so palpable. And now Kelly and her class take their rightful place.

It is sad.

We have made a family in Durham. Not just our immediate family with Ethan born here, but with our many friends and colleagues who have truly been there through all the "major" events in my and Kelly's life. They have witnessed our early days as friends, then our days of dating, engagement and attended our wedding and were a witness to our marriage vows. They saw us through our first pregnancy and the eventual birth of our first born. They celebrated the highs, and commiserated with the lows. Many dinners, parties, get-togethers, game nights, movie nights.

And now, the group moves on to the next phase in their lives and professional development. Quite literally, the Duke med/peds class of '07 will be relocating to all four corners of the country - Seattle (Pacific Northwest), San Diego (Southwest/coast), Ithaca, NY (Northeast) and Georgia (Deep South) :-D

Thank you for the memories guys. We look forward to a reunion in the near future and good luck with all your future endeavors, be they professional, personal, or of service.

With two more senior dinners left (the medicine department and med/peds), emotions will be building, and ultimately come pouring when the med/peds class say 'good-bye'.

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alright, reality check, Noomz needs a poopie diaper changed... and oh yea, we still have this thing called a house to sell.. .argh!

Monday, June 11, 2007

Jen & Eric: The Wedding (Slideshow)

So moving. Click on Jen and Eric's wedding to see a slideshow of their wedding in St. Louis this past May (27th). Jen and I worked together in the Hogan Lab, Duke University, before she left to do her graduate work at SLU. Best wishes to you both always.

Monday, June 04, 2007

Weekend Warriors



The title of this blog entry seems awfully appropriate. What a weekend we had. Just when I felt down in the dumps with regards to all the effort and little interest in our house showings, God restored a bit of hope this weekend. Without knowing really where to begin, I will just say, it was nice to have had friends around this weekend when there was just so much going on.

Saturday morning was an early start. I received a call at around 8:30am requesting a house showing at 10am. Of course, from the disappointment of Friday's "no-show" and Kelly and I being far too pooped to clean up after dinner, I had a lot on my plate to get the house ready (yes, yet again, so tiring!) for 10am on Saturday. Kelly had to work, so I called her, angry and upset at the state we left the kitchen in, not necessarily anticipating such an early request for a showing (though we should know better by now that at any given time some agent may want to show our home to potential buyers).

Kelly called Krishelle. Krishelle was on-call last night and very tired. She came straight over, in her work outfit (scrubs) from being in the hospital all last night, and helped with looking after Ethan while I got the house in order. In one hour, I had the house glowing. And ready for 10am. Now, if only the clients would stay true to their word and show up this time. Or else this would seriously be the straw that broke my back. Thankfully, an agent and a couple showed up precisely around 10am to find our house vacated and in glorious order for them to view. (Krishelle, Ethan and I went for a walk around the neighborhood -- totally spying on these people of course -- and taking Noomz out on his Radio Flyer/wagon). The folks spent a good 10-12 minutes in the house, and a couple minutes outside, and I even noticed that the man was taking some photos (as I did when we were shopping around for a house in Blue Ridge). So it would seem that all was good and that they actually really had interest in our house - though I did not speak to them, but I am pretty sure they also 'knew' who we were - owners of the house. We were not exactly hiding our identity or anything.

Krishelle hung around and helped with keeping Ethan entertained and Kelly got home fairly early to have lunch with us and chit chat. Not long after, I had an appointment to go pick up some furniture that I had found on Craig's List online. The seller was only just minutes away, and so I was able to responed and go to the person's house and view the piece first hand in a matter of minutes (the posting on CL was only a couple hours old!). And I was able to get a really great deal on some fantastic storage pieces we need for when we move to Blue Ridge. I got this 3-piece wall unit (central mission-style armoire with two side units) all for $175! What a steal, no? My neighbors helped me move the furniture back to our place, and I have agreed to help them find some good furniture deals on CL, though this particular deal does not come all the time, I explained to them.

And so with one great showing, and one fantastic furniture find, my weekend was golden, though still had Sunday! We started making sushi Saturday night with J and K (see previous post) and went to the morning program at the Baha'i Center on Sunday (previous post). Sunday afternoon, I got another call from a person who saw my house ad for sale on CL, and called to see if it was already sold. We agreed on a showing that evening at 6pm. That time arrived, and the person was not here. I called, of course worried and skeptical about the person's motives. (can you blame me?) But only a few minutes late, she arrives. The showing went great, and she told me she was looking precisely for a home not too big, single level, because her elderly mom will be living with her, and stairs are out of the question! She even fell in love with my elephant ears and general gardening/landscaping design. But we shall see if this interest truly manifests in an offer or not.

We hung out with J and K (again) late Sunday evening and the girls (Kelly, Jessica, Krishelle) went on a baking rampage, making oatmeal chocolate chip cookies, regular chocolate chip cookies, and a banana bread loaf! Hahaha... seriously, it was a bit much, especially since they started the whole process around 8pm, and you know how Sundays generally have a certain lull and quietness about it since the work week starts the following day. So the house was filled with warm oven-baked doughy goodness. And with tall glasses of cold milk, the weekend wrapped up all the more sweet.

This morning I got an email from my realtor/agent saying the Saturday showing (the couple) are really interested and have our house in their 'top 3' :-D Yay!!!! I don't know if it will win out of course, but they are supposed to give it some thought and put in an offer some time by the end of this week. I hope they do put in an offer, and that it is reasonable, so that we can make a deal and move on.

Oh!!! And how could I forget, yes, no longer the weekend, this morning (Monday) a gentleman came to pick up a flyer from our front yard, to whom I got his attention from down the street (Ethan and I were out early for a walk) and asked if he would like to see the house now. Of course he obliged and was totally interested and said would have his agent call mine right away. I sure hope so, because the more interest, the better the offers. But I just want one good offer of course :-D

And before this all happened, the moment Ethan and I took the wagon out for a spin, we found a turtle "out in the sunshine feeling fine" (a la Ethan's "Jungle Tumble" book) :-D I have the cute little shelled critter in some water in a pail. Don't know what I will do with it, but perhaps just have Ethan play and look at it for a bit longer and I will let it go. You know you live in the "tropics" when instead of rabbits or squirrels you find turtles in your yard!

:-D

Sunday, June 03, 2007

A Khaki Bunch



Going to the Baha'i Center this morning, Kelly had this crazy idea we should all coordinate our attire with Ethan's outfit. So here are a couple pictures of our best attempt.

Sushi Making Dinner Party



Last night we had a sushi making session at home with Krishelle and Jessica. We bought ingredients to make sushi rolls with eel, crab meat, pickled radish, cream cheese, bean curd, and the specialty of the night, SPAM. Yup, apparently a popular food (sushi) variety in Hawaii is one that has cream chese and fried spam. So we tried it, and I personally give it a 'thumbs up'.


Krishelle had a ton of sushi rice as well as the vinegar that goes with it, and sheets and sheets of seaweed - we could have made more rolls actually but already it was a bit excessive the amount of sushi we made. I ate sushi for breakfast this morning, and again for lunch, with Jessica, Krishelle, Hardene (Krishelle's guest/friend) and Amani.


Oh and I almost forgot, Jessica brought over this 6 pound (!!) can of fruit cocktail that she had bought from Sam's. Krishelle and Jessica had made almond jelly (to go with the fruit) for dessert and we nearly finished all the fruit cocktail, much to Jessica's delight :-D Smaller, individual packs, next time Jessica.

Friday, June 01, 2007

While I Sit & Wait...



This is the second time I have been "stood up" by the same (potential) buyer requesting to see our house. Every person who has ever bought or sold a house - no, actually, just anyone and everyone - knows how much time it takes to keep a house in order, let alone perfectly (I mean totally perfectly) spic-and-span for showing to sell. And making the situation all the more harder of course is also having to feed and care for and provide attention to and interact with an infant (and the mess that one so tender in age inevitably produces). So, all I ask is that people stay true to their word and just show up :-D What, it takes all of 5 minutes to "tour" our cozy home? No, less, 3. Common courtesy is just lost these days it seems. And displayed now on at least two occasions by this same person. But what is one who is trying to sell their home supposed to do? You can hardly pick and choose who to show and sell your home to - after all this is not the West Coast real estate market where buyers "compete" to out bid each other for any particular house. And last night was so hard. No justice in this, is there? Oh, Noomz just woke...



cont...

Amani helped us in a big way to repaint the dark colours into neutrals (pictured above). THANKS, AMANI! And here are a couple pictures of the front view of our Durham house for sale. The garden is looking very colourful these days with canas, roses, verbena, morning glory and alliums all blooming (or just starting to bloom).



Slate Floor Cont...

... the builder and designer of our Blue Ridge home just sent me updated pictures after the first sealing of the floor work.. grouting and a final sealing is still to be done but already it looks nice and shiny!






today has been a rough one.. busy busy busy.. the aquarium is gone (sold it) and have a showing of our home (Durham) tomorrow morning.. will sign off for tonight but will update y'all again soon..